Chapter 18: Religion in America vs. India (Private Faith, Public Life)
Chapter 18: Religion in America vs. India (Private Faith, Public Life)
Both countries are deeply religious, but the way it is expressed is completely different.
18.1. The “Desk Decorum”
In India, it is common to have a small shrine of Ganesha or a photo of a Saint on your office desk. In America, this is a Social Mistake. While it is legal, the “Operating System” says that religion is a Private matter. Bringing it into the office is seen as “Proselytizing” (trying to convert people) or simply unprofessional. Keep your faith in your heart (and your car or home), but leave it off your office desk.
18.2. The Church as a Social Club
In India, you go to a Temple for a “Darshan” (to see the God). In America, people go to Church for the Community.
- The “Sunday Culture” is about more than just prayer; it’s about networking, charity, and social standing.
- The Temple/Gurdwara in America: Because Indians are a minority, the Temple in the US becomes a “Cultural Embassy.” It’s where you go to eat Samosas, find a Hindi tutor for your kids, and speak your mother tongue.
18.3. The Christmas Season
From November to January, America becomes a “Christian” country in a way it isn’t the rest of the year.
- The “Holiday” Neutrality: To be inclusive, people say “Happy Holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas.” Some conservatives hate this, while liberals insist on it.
- Recommendation: Participate in the “Commercial” side (the lights, the gift-giving) as a way of cultural bridging. You don’t have to believe in the theology to enjoy the “Winter Festival.”
Practical Takeaway for the Indian: Find your community. In India, community is forced upon you. In America, you must seek it out. Whether it’s a Temple, a Hiking Club, or a Coding Group, find a “Tribe” so you don’t succumb to the isolation of the “Individual OS.”